55 Engaging Questions to Help You Dazzle Your Date
Master the simple art of asking questions
You’re going on your first date, and you’ve already narrowed everything down to a T. You know where you’re going, you know what you’re going to wear, but now you’re starting to get anxious because you don’t know what you’re going to talk about.
That’s all going to change once you become an expert at asking the right questions. Here’s what we’ll cover today.
Conversational Skills You Need to Succeed
Being a good conversationalist is at the top of the list of things that will make you succeed, and you need to come prepared. We’ve all heard that women like men who ask questions, and don’t just talk about themselves. That’s why I came up with the ultimate list of questions to ask on a first date.
So when you’re on your date and things start to get quiet, use some of these good conversation starter questions.
None of the questions can be answered with a simple yes or no, so you’re guaranteed a quality conversation.
Without further ado, let’s get into it.
55 Engaging Questions to Ask on a First Date
Now, there are lots of different things that you might want to ask a person, so I’ll leave you with a few categories for you to choose from.
Make sure to pick a category and question that seems most interesting to you, so that you can both be engaged in the conversation.
At the beginning of the date, it’s always good to start with some light and airy questions. No one wants to be back into a corner with a bunch of super deep, personal questions.
We’re going for questions that’ll be fun for both of you to answer and hopefully spark an energetic, enjoyable conversation. Let’s do it!
Now, this next set of questions is definitely more personal.
Make sure you and your date are up to answering these types of personal questions and make sure you suss out the vibe before asking any of these!
You’re about to learn a lot about the person you’re on a date with. Make sure to follow up on your questions with a “How so?” or “Why is that?” to ensure more conversation with ensue.
Fun personal questions
To follow up with those serious, personal questions, you can definitely ask some funny personal questions!
This way, you can still share a laugh, but also get to know the person you’re on a date with a little more deeply.
These types are of questions are always fun because they get the creativity wheels spinning.
These types of questions can lead to serious, deep conversations, or you can keep them light and fun.
Everyone loves to experience new places and new cultures.
Ask your date about places they’ve been, where they dream to go, and more!
Taking the conversation to the next level
Once you’ve gotten things off to a strong start, you can impress your date further by going beyond the superficial. That’s why we compiled a list of what experts have to say about what to talk about on a first date in order to truly get tot know someone.
Now that we’ve gone over 55 great conversation starters
Hopefully, you won’t have to use all of these questions in a single date, but we sure do hope you found this list helpful and fun.
What are some of your favorite questions to ask when you’re on a first date? Let us know in the comment section below.
And remember, always have fun and stay safe on your first date. Screen your date on DateID before you meet to make sure they’re legit and not going to waste your time.